With heavy hearts and deep sorrow, we announce the unexpected passing of Matthew David Elmer of College Station, Texas, who tragically left us on Sunday, December 22, 2024, at the age of 24. A vibrant soul with a heart full of love, Matthew’s untimely departure has left a profound void in the lives of all who knew him. His family, friends, and community will forever cherish the memories he created and the legacy he leaves behind.
A Celebration of Life service for Matthew will be held at First Baptist Church in Pleasanton, Texas, on Saturday, January 11, 2025, at 11:00 a.m. This service will honor his life, celebrate his contributions, and provide an opportunity for those who knew him to come together, share their memories, and find comfort in one another. The family invites all who were touched by Matthew’s life to join them as they remember the young man whose impact on the world was both profound and enduring.
In lieu of flowers, the family kindly requests donations be made to the Miracle League of San Antonio, an organization close to Matthew’s heart. The Miracle League is dedicated to providing children with disabilities an opportunity to play baseball, a cause that Matthew supported wholeheartedly due to his deep sense of empathy and compassion for others. Donations can be sent to Miracle League of San Antonio, attn: Michael Miller, 926 Chulie, San Antonio, TX 78216. Matthew was born in Pleasanton, Texas, and grew up in the warm embrace of a loving and tight-knit family.
Throughout his life, Matthew demonstrated an unwavering spirit of kindness, resilience, and generosity that left a lasting impression on everyone he met. Those who knew him best describe him as someone who always looked out for others, a young man with an infectious smile and a heart full of compassion. His family recalls how Matthew’s presence could light up any room, his laughter and warmth making everyone around him feel special and valued. Whether he was with close friends or strangers, Matthew had an innate ability to make those around him feel comfortable, heard, and appreciated.
Matthew’s journey took him to College Station, Texas, where he pursued his dreams, continuing his education, and making meaningful connections along the way. Despite the challenges life threw his way, Matthew always persevered. He was a testament to hard work, determination, and a profound commitment to making the world a better place, especially for those in need. His compassionate nature and desire to help others were demonstrated in the many ways he volunteered his time to various causes, most notably his involvement with the Miracle League.
Through his efforts, he was able to share his love for sports, community, and inclusivity, creating opportunities for children with disabilities to experience the joy of playing baseball. In his personal life, Matthew was a loving son, brother, and friend. His family—his parents, siblings, and extended loved ones—were the cornerstone of his life. He shared an especially close bond with his parents, who were his pillars of support, offering him unconditional love and guidance. As a brother, Matthew was protective, supportive, and always willing to lend a hand.
His siblings admired his dedication to making their lives better, and they often described him as someone who would drop everything to help them, no matter the circumstances. His friends held him in equally high regard, seeing him as a confidant, a source of strength, and someone who would never hesitate to offer kindness, advice, or a helping hand. Matthew’s love for others was only matched by his passion for life. He had a deep appreciation for the little things, from enjoying time outdoors to exploring new places and creating memories with the people who mattered most.
His sense of adventure was only surpassed by his ability to make those around him feel seen, heard, and loved. Matthew understood the importance of building meaningful connections, and he invested time and effort into making sure those who were close to him felt valued. His legacy is one of love, kindness, and the deep impact he made on those fortunate enough to know him. Though Matthew’s life was far too short, his contributions to the world were immeasurable. He believed in making a difference in the lives of others, and he did so with humility and grace.
The impact Matthew made on the people he met, the causes he supported, and the community he loved will continue to live on. His family takes solace in knowing that his spirit of compassion and generosity will remain a guiding light for those who were touched by his kindness. In the wake of Matthew’s passing, his family encourages those who may be struggling to reach out for help. Mental health and emotional well-being are of utmost importance, and no one should feel alone in their struggles.
If you or anyone you know is in need of support, please remember that help is available 24/7. The Suicide & Crisis Lifeline can be reached by calling or texting 988, or by visiting 988lifeline.org for more resources and support. Matthew’s family extends their heartfelt gratitude to everyone who has shown love and support during this incredibly difficult time. Your kind words, thoughts, and actions have been a source of comfort, and they express their deep appreciation for the outpouring of care.
As they navigate this devastating loss, they take solace in the many fond memories they share of Matthew and the love he gave so freely. Matthew will be deeply missed, but he will never be forgotten. His memory will live on through the lives of those he touched, the work he did, and the love he shared. The family takes comfort in knowing that Matthew’s legacy of kindness, empathy, and giving will continue to inspire others for years to come.
As we gather to remember and celebrate Matthew’s life, let us honor his spirit by living with the same compassion, kindness, and dedication that he showed every day. Matthew’s journey may have ended far too soon, but the impact he had on the world will forever remain. May we all strive to carry forward the lessons he taught us about love, community, and the importance of looking out for one another. Rest in peace, Matthew. You will be deeply missed, but your legacy will continue to inspire and uplift us all.
