It is with heavy hearts that we announce the passing of our beloved Lee, who left us far too soon at the age of 42. Lee’s life was a beautiful testament to love, laughter, and the profound impact one person can have on those around them. His presence was a source of warmth and joy, a light that brightened the lives of all who knew him. Lee passed away peacefully at his home in Whitby on Wednesday, February 19th, 2025, surrounded by the love that defined his life. As we come to terms with this tragic loss, we find solace in the memories of his kindness, humor, and unwavering devotion to his family and friends.
Lee is survived by his devoted and loving wife, Nicki (nee Bell), and their two beautiful children, Sawyer and Lennon, who were the center of his world. As a father, Lee embodied kindness, patience, and an unwavering dedication to his family. His love for his children was immeasurable, and he took immense pride in being their guiding force. He always encouraged them to chase their dreams, embrace life’s adventures, and approach each day with the same joy and enthusiasm that he carried with him. He had a unique ability to make every moment feel special, and his children will forever cherish the lessons, love, and memories he provided.
Born in the close-knit community of Campbellford, Lee was raised by his devoted parents, Robert and Valerie Palmateer, who instilled in him the values of love, integrity, and compassion. As a son, Lee was a source of pride and joy, always showing his gratitude for the love and support they provided throughout his life. His childhood was filled with laughter, sports, and a strong sense of community, all of which formed the foundation for the remarkable man he became. Robert and Valerie shaped Lee’s character, imparting to him the values of kindness, generosity, and hard work that he carried with him into adulthood.
Lee’s memory will forever be cherished by his brothers, Dion Palmateer (wife Dana) and Joel Palmateer (wife Laura), with whom he shared an unbreakable bond. Whether it was childhood mischief, shared ambitions, or simply supporting one another through life’s ups and downs, their connection was one of deep love and friendship. Dion and Joel will always remember Lee not only as a brother but as a lifelong friend who was there to lend a hand or offer words of encouragement. His nieces, Isabella, Payton, Evelina, and Rosalie, will always remember their uncle as a source of endless fun, encouragement, and love. Lee’s ability to make those around him feel valued and appreciated left an indelible mark on all who were fortunate enough to know him.
Lee was equally embraced by his extended family, forming deep connections with his parents-in-law, Colette and Anthony Bell, who loved him as their own. His sisters- and brothers-in-law, Mary-Jo Garvey (Aaron), Amy Bell (Steve), and Jess Lonergan (Kevin), held Lee in the highest regard, valuing his warmth, humor, and steadfast presence. His nieces and nephews, Molly, Liam, Lucy, Isla, and Maddox, will forever cherish the wonderful memories of their uncle, who never failed to bring a smile to their faces. Lee’s presence in their lives was a constant reminder of the importance of family, love, and togetherness. His legacy will live on in the hearts of all his family members, who were fortunate enough to share in his light.
Beyond his family, Lee was a cherished friend to so many. His natural ability to connect with others, his genuine kindness, and his unwavering loyalty made him an irreplaceable presence in the lives of his friends. Lee’s humor was infectious, and his support was unwavering. Whether he was making others laugh, lending a listening ear, or providing a shoulder to lean on, Lee’s friends knew they could always count on him. His passion for sports, his involvement in the community, and his everyday interactions all served to strengthen the bonds he shared with those around him. Lee had a unique ability to make people feel heard and valued, and his friendships were a testament to the love and care he put into every relationship.
In keeping with Lee’s wishes, cremation will take place, and a celebration of his incredible life will be held at a later date. This event will allow all who loved him to gather and honor his memory in a way that reflects the vibrant and loving person he was. Lee’s family invites those who knew him to come together, share stories, and celebrate the impact he had on their lives. The details of the celebration will be shared once arrangements are finalized, and all who wish to attend will be welcomed to join in remembering Lee’s legacy.
If desired, the family kindly asks that donations be made to the Jumpstart Organization in Lee’s memory, reflecting his passion for ensuring that all children have the opportunity to experience the joy of sports and play. Lee was a firm believer in the power of sports to bring people together, teach valuable life lessons, and foster a sense of community. Supporting Jumpstart is a fitting way to honor Lee’s commitment to helping others and giving back to the community he loved.
Lee’s passing is an immeasurable loss, but his spirit lives on in the hearts of those who loved him. His warmth, humor, and generosity will continue to inspire all who knew him, and his legacy will remain a guiding light for his family, friends, and the community he held dear. While the pain of losing him is profound, his memory will forever be a source of strength and comfort for those left behind.
We encourage everyone to reach out to their loved ones, to share stories and memories of Lee, and to find comfort in the legacy of love and kindness he leaves behind. Though he is no longer physically present, Lee’s impact on the world will never fade. His legacy of compassion, loyalty, and joy will continue to live on in the hearts of those who cherished him. Rest in peace, Lee. You are deeply loved and will be profoundly missed, but you will never be forgotten. Your memory will live on in the lives of all who had the privilege of knowing you, and your spirit will continue to guide us in the days ahead. GoFundMe
