It is with profound sadness that we announce the passing of Mr. Charlie Clifford Lakony, who left us on March 9th, 2025, at Scripps Mercy Hospital. Charlie’s death has left a deep and irreplaceable void in the lives of his family, friends, and everyone who knew him. He was a beloved husband, father, brother, and friend whose warmth, generosity, and infectious personality touched the hearts of many, particularly within the Ugandan community in San Diego. His loss is felt deeply by the Lakony and Kibwota families, who were fortunate enough to experience his love and kindness firsthand.
Charlie was known for his unwavering dedication to his loved ones, his community, and his work. His life was a testament to the power of human connection, and he worked tirelessly to uplift others, whether by providing support for his family or giving back to the broader community that he cherished so much. His presence was always a source of comfort, and his spirit exuded kindness and compassion, making it clear that he was a man who valued relationships, community, and service above all else.
Charlie’s journey began in Uganda, where his roots were firmly planted in the culture, tradition, and values that shaped him. Growing up in Uganda, Charlie developed a strong sense of responsibility towards his family and community, values that would carry him throughout his life. He moved to the United States many years ago, seeking a better life, and in doing so, he brought his rich heritage with him, sharing it generously with those around him. Charlie became a vital part of the Ugandan community in San Diego, where he built lasting friendships, offering support and guidance to those who needed it most.
His unwavering loyalty to his loved ones was something that everyone who knew him admired. As a husband, Charlie was supportive, loving, and dependable. His wife knew him to be her pillar of strength, someone who would go to any lengths to ensure the happiness and well-being of their family. His role as a father was just as significant; Charlie was deeply devoted to his children and always made time for them, no matter how busy life became. His nurturing spirit, combined with his practical approach to parenting, provided a solid foundation for his children to grow, thrive, and succeed.
Charlie’s commitment to the community in San Diego was another defining characteristic of his life. He was known for his generosity, always willing to lend a hand, offer advice, or provide a helping hand to anyone in need. Whether it was assisting fellow members of the Ugandan diaspora or working with other members of his community, Charlie’s efforts to improve the lives of those around him never went unnoticed. His kindness extended beyond family and friends; Charlie was a pillar of support for those who faced hardship, a mentor to many, and a friend to all.
Charlie’s generosity wasn’t limited to just his time and support; it was reflected in the way he lived his life. His approach to life was grounded in values that emphasized respect, empathy, and mutual understanding. He believed in the importance of making the world a better place, no matter how small the gesture. Charlie’s acts of kindness were countless, but he always did so without seeking recognition or praise, a true reflection of his humble character.
Now, as the family grieves, they also honor his final wishes. In keeping with Charlie’s desire to return to his homeland, efforts are underway to repatriate his body to Uganda for a dignified farewell. Charlie always held a special place in his heart for Uganda, and it was his wish to return there one final time. His family, friends, and the Ugandan community are rallying together to ensure that Charlie’s wishes are respected, and that he is given the honorable and respectful farewell he deserves.
The process of repatriation, while challenging, is a testament to the love and care that Charlie’s family and community have for him. It is an effort driven by the desire to honor the man he was and to fulfill his final wishes. This task is not easy, but it is one that his family is dedicated to completing, knowing how much it would have meant to him. His family finds comfort in knowing that they are carrying out his last request, ensuring that Charlie’s legacy of love, generosity, and devotion lives on.
During this difficult time, the family seeks support from friends, the community, and all who knew Charlie. The grieving process is never easy, and the Lakony and Kibwota families are finding solace in the kindness and compassion that others have extended to them. As they prepare to lay Charlie to rest, they are grateful for the outpouring of love and support that has come their way. These gestures of kindness are not only comforting, but they also reflect the profound impact that Charlie had on those around him.
In addition to emotional support, the family has also established a fundraising initiative to help cover the costs associated with the funeral and repatriation process. The financial burden of organizing such an event is significant, and any contributions, no matter how small, are deeply appreciated. The generosity of friends, family, and community members will help ensure that Charlie is given the proper send-off he deserves.
It is said that a person’s true legacy is measured by the lives they touch, and in Charlie’s case, his legacy will live on in the hearts of many. He was more than just a husband, father, or community member—he was a source of light and strength for everyone who knew him. His influence and the love he gave to those around him will continue to reverberate through the lives of his family, friends, and community members for years to come. Charlie’s spirit will live on through the memories he created and the values he instilled in those fortunate enough to have known him.
As the family moves forward with preparations to honor Charlie’s life and legacy, they are filled with gratitude for the time they shared with him. While the grief of his loss is immeasurable, the love he gave will forever be cherished. His family will continue to carry his memory with them, ensuring that his spirit remains alive in their hearts.
Charlie’s passing is a reminder of the preciousness of life and the importance of cherishing the time we have with our loved ones. His memory serves as a beacon of love, kindness, and generosity, inspiring all who knew him to live with compassion and empathy for others. Though Charlie is no longer with us in body, his legacy will continue to inspire and guide us as we move forward.
Rest in peace, Charlie Clifford Lakony. You will forever be missed, but your love, generosity, and strength will live on in all of us. Your legacy will continue to inspire, and your spirit will never be forgotten.
