It is with deep sorrow and profound grief that we announce the untimely passing of Abbey Medcalf Cooler, a beloved wife, mother, and friend, who tragically lost her life in a devastating car accident in Georgia. Abbey’s passing has left her family, friends, and the entire community heartbroken, grappling with the loss of a woman whose presence brought warmth, light, and unwavering love to everyone around her.
Abbey was known for her infectious joy and magnetic spirit. She had a bubbly personality that could light up a room, and a kindness that made everyone feel seen and valued. Whether you were a close friend or a passing acquaintance, Abbey had a way of making you feel welcome, included, and deeply cared for. Her hugs were legendary—always full of comfort, sincerity, and a sense of belonging. There are no words to describe the impact Abbey had on those around her, but what stands out the most is the legacy she leaves behind—a legacy of love, laughter, and friendship that will live on in the hearts of all who knew her.
Abbey’s life was deeply intertwined with the love she shared with her family. She was a proud wife to Adam Cooler, and their love was a shining example of partnership and faith. Together, they built a life centered on love, trust, and unwavering devotion to each other and their family. Their bond was evident to everyone who witnessed their relationship. Abbey’s commitment to Adam was steadfast, and their shared journey through life was marked by mutual respect, support, and affection.
Abbey’s heart belonged most to her two beautiful daughters, whom she adored unconditionally. Her children were her world, and she poured every ounce of herself into making their lives full of love, laughter, and purpose. Whether it was cheering them on during school events, creating family memories, or simply enjoying quiet moments together, Abbey’s role as a mother was central to who she was. Her love for her children knew no bounds, and she strived every day to give them the best life possible. Abbey’s children will carry her memory with them forever, knowing how deeply she loved them and how fiercely she supported their dreams and aspirations.
In addition to her devotion to family, Abbey was a woman of deep faith and was actively involved in her church community. Her spiritual life was not just something she practiced, but something she lived with grace and conviction every day. Abbey’s faith was a foundation that supported her through every season of life. Whether through church events, small groups, or simply offering a shoulder to someone in need, Abbey served with humility, joy, and a heart full of Christ-like compassion. Her acts of kindness, her gentle nature, and her willingness to help others exemplified the love of Christ, and her legacy in the church will never be forgotten. Abbey’s commitment to her faith and the way she lived it out has touched the lives of many, and her influence will continue to inspire those who knew her.
Abbey’s journey also took her through her time as a cheerleader at Georgia Southwestern State University, where she soared high on the sidelines. Her friends remember her as a bright star full of energy and joy. “She flew high on the sidelines at GSW,” one tribute reads, “but she is flying even higher now.” That sentiment captures the heartbreak and hope felt by those mourning her loss—believing that she is now in eternal peace, held in the arms of the Lord she so faithfully followed. Abbey’s vibrant spirit and contagious enthusiasm will live on in the hearts of her college friends and teammates, who remember her as someone who always brought joy and light into their lives.
Abbey’s ability to connect with people was extraordinary. She had a rare gift for making others feel special, seen, and heard. Whether it was her infectious laugh, her genuine interest in people’s lives, or her ability to offer a listening ear when someone needed it most, Abbey had a way of making everyone feel valued. Her generosity extended beyond just her family and close friends; she made her community a better place through her actions, always offering help where it was needed without expecting anything in return. Abbey’s legacy of kindness, warmth, and selflessness will continue to ripple through the lives she touched, leaving an indelible mark on all who were lucky enough to know her.
In the face of adversity, Abbey remained strong and full of grace. She faced the challenges of life with courage, never allowing difficulties to define her. Her ability to lift others up, even when she was facing her own struggles, spoke to the depth of her character. Abbey was a living example of resilience, love, and faith, showing those around her how to live with grace, how to love unconditionally, and how to remain hopeful, no matter what life throws your way. Her spirit was one of unwavering positivity, and her presence in the lives of those around her was a gift that will continue to bless them for years to come.
Abbey’s sudden passing has left a hole in the hearts of all who knew her, and the sorrow felt by her family, friends, and community is immeasurable. Yet, amidst the grief, there is a sense of peace knowing that Abbey’s legacy will live on in her children, her family, and all the lives she touched. Her memory will be carried in the stories shared by those who loved her, in the laughter of her children, in the kindness passed on by her example, and in the love that continues to surround her family.
A celebration of Abbey Medcalf Cooler’s life will be held on July 7th and 8th, 2025, at Memorial Park Funeral Homes in Toledo, Ohio. Visitation will take place from 9:30 AM to 10:30 AM, with the funeral service following at 10:30 AM. A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated on July 8th. Abbey will be laid to rest surrounded by her loved ones, who will gather to remember her spirit, her love, and her legacy. The family has requested privacy during this incredibly difficult time, as they navigate the pain of their loss.
While we grieve Abbey’s passing, we also celebrate a life that, though brief, was beautifully lived. In every memory, every story shared, and every heart touched, Abbey Medcalf Cooler remains ever-present. Her legacy is one of love—a lasting reminder to cherish those around us, live authentically, and hold tight to what truly matters.
Abbey’s light will continue to shine brightly, guiding her family and all who loved her through this difficult time. May she rest in eternal peace, and may her family find strength in the love and prayers that surround them during this unimaginable time.
