John Sharkey; Obituary, Death: It is with great sorrow that the family of John Sharkey announces his passing on January 21, 2025, at the age of 72. John was a lifelong resident of Buffalo, New York, and was deeply loved by his family, friends, and community. He was known for his warmth, humor, and his generous heart. John leaves behind a legacy of kindness and a profound impact on everyone who had the privilege of knowing him.
John was born on April 10, 1952, in Buffalo, to the late Thomas and Margaret (O’Connor) Sharkey. He grew up in the Elmwood Village neighborhood, where he developed a lifelong love for the city of Buffalo and its vibrant culture. As a young man, John attended Buffalo’s St. Joseph’s Collegiate Institute, where he excelled academically and developed a strong network of lifelong friendships.
After high school, John attended the University at Buffalo, where he earned his degree in Business Administration. He later went on to have a successful career in the insurance industry, working at various firms throughout his life. His dedication to his work and his ability to connect with clients made him a well-respected figure in his field. Many admired his integrity, work ethic, and his ability to solve problems with a calm and steady approach.
But more than anything, John was a devoted family man. He married his high school sweetheart, Mary Ellen (Hughes), in 1975. Together, they raised three children, all of whom fondly remember their father’s unwavering support and unconditional love. John was an ever-present figure at school events, sporting activities, and family gatherings. His children grew up knowing that their father was someone they could always count on, whether they needed advice, a listening ear, or just a good laugh.
John’s sense of humor, sharp wit, and generous spirit were qualities he passed down to them. John also shared a special bond with his grandchildren. He was a doting grandfather to three grandsons, and their faces would light up whenever they were in his presence. He loved spending time with them, whether it was at a local park, attending their sporting events, or simply enjoying afternoons together at his home in Buffalo.
His legacy lives on through them, and the stories of his love, laughter, and guidance will continue to be shared by his family for generations to come. In addition to his family, John was an active member of the Buffalo community. He was a devoted supporter of local charities and was known for volunteering his time and resources to causes that were close to his heart. One of John’s greatest passions was helping to fundraise for local cancer research foundations, as his own life had been touched by the disease in several ways over the years.
He participated in events that aimed to make a difference in the lives of those battling cancer, often going above and beyond to raise funds and awareness. John was also a lifelong fan of Buffalo’s sports teams, particularly the Buffalo Bills and Buffalo Sabres. He could often be found with his family and friends at a local sports bar, cheering for his favorite teams, or enjoying a game from the comfort of his home. His enthusiasm for sports was contagious, and he shared his love for the teams with his children and grandchildren, instilling in them the same passion for Buffalo’s sports culture.
John’s friends will remember him as a man who could always be counted on for a good laugh and a thoughtful conversation. He had a unique ability to make everyone feel welcome and valued, and his circle of friends was as diverse and varied as his interests. Whether it was discussing politics, sports, or life in general, John’s friends appreciated his ability to listen without judgment and offer insights that were both practical and comforting. His presence at social gatherings will be sorely missed, and his friendship will be cherished forever.
John was also a lover of the outdoors. He spent many weekends hiking, fishing, and enjoying the natural beauty of western New York. His favorite spot was Letchworth State Park, where he and his family would gather for annual summer picnics. Those who knew John will recall his love for nature and the peacefulness he found in spending time surrounded by the great outdoors.
John is survived by his beloved wife of nearly 50 years, Mary Ellen Sharkey; his three children, Erin (David) McAllister, Patrick (Laura) Sharkey, and Sean (Lindsay) Sharkey; and his three grandchildren, Matthew, Owen, and Liam McAllister. He is also survived by his siblings, Thomas (Marie) Sharkey, and Kathleen (Paul) Donovan; as well as many nieces, nephews, and cousins. He was predeceased by his parents, Thomas and Margaret Sharkey, and his sister, Maureen Sharkey.
The family extends their heartfelt gratitude to the staff of Buffalo General Hospital for their care and compassion during John’s final days. In lieu of flowers, the family asks that donations be made in John’s memory to the Roswell Park Comprehensive Cancer Center, a cause that was dear to his heart.
A memorial service to celebrate John’s life will be held at 11:00 AM on Friday, January 26, 2025, at St. Joseph’s Cathedral, located at 50 Franklin Street, Buffalo, NY. A reception will follow at the Buffalo Niagara Convention Center. Family and friends are invited to gather and share stories of John’s life and the positive impact he had on all who knew him.
John Sharkey’s passing leaves a tremendous void in the hearts of those who knew him, but his memory will live on through the countless lives he touched. His family takes comfort in knowing that John was a man who lived a life full of love, laughter, and service to others. His legacy will continue to inspire those who were fortunate enough to know him. Rest in peace, John. You will always be loved and never forgotten.
