Southampton, Hampshire, UK – October 20, 2025 – The community of Totton, Southampton, is mourning the tragic loss of Nigel Key, a 51-year-old father who was found murdered in his home just weeks after his wife passed away from cancer. His death has left family, friends, and neighbors in profound sorrow, as they remember him as a devoted family man, a skilled engineer, and a generous friend to all.
What Happened?
Nigel Key was discovered murdered in his home in the Matley Gardens area of Totton on Thursday, October 16. Police responded to an emergency call at 1:32 p.m., where they found Mr. Key with severe injuries. Despite the efforts of emergency responders, Nigel was pronounced dead at the scene.
A 31-year-old man from Totton was arrested on suspicion of murder. Authorities confirmed that after the arrest, the suspect was taken to the hospital for treatment and later detained under the Mental Health Act following an assessment by medical professionals. The investigation is ongoing, and Hampshire Police have encouraged anyone with information to come forward, particularly those with concerns or who may have witnessed the event.
Who Was Nigel Key?
Nigel Key was described by his family as a devoted father and a man full of warmth and generosity. In a statement released by Hampshire Police, they said: “Nigel was a devoted family man loved by family and friends. He was always friendly, generous, neighbourly and helpful to everyone.”
A skilled engineer, Nigel was respected by his peers for his expertise and professionalism. His neighbors recalled him as a charming and friendly man, who always had time to stop and chat. Many spoke highly of his contributions to community life, particularly in their shared experiences as dog owners.
A Heartbreaking Loss
Just weeks prior to his tragic death, Nigel had shared the sorrowful news of his wife’s passing. His wife, 56-year-old Mrs. Key, had been battling cancer, undergoing intensive radiotherapy and chemotherapy. Despite the valiant efforts, she passed away unexpectedly, leaving Nigel devastated. In a heartfelt post on social media, Nigel expressed his grief, writing: “No one was expecting it to take her so soon. She was an amazing wife, mum, and nan.”
Family and friends of the Keys have expressed shock at the untimely death of Mr. Key, especially after he had just lost his beloved wife. Their grief has been compounded by the tragic and brutal nature of his death.
Public and Social Media Reactions
Tributes to Nigel poured in from friends, family, and the local community, who have described him as a kind-hearted man, a beloved father, and a pillar of the community. Neighbors expressed their sorrow, recalling their fond memories of him. Ian Roberts, a 51-year-old neighbor, said, “All I can say is they were a very nice couple.”
Social media posts from family members have also shared messages of love and remembrance for both Nigel and his late wife, with many expressing their disbelief over the tragic events.
Official Statements and Investigation
The Hampshire Police have confirmed that the investigation into Mr. Key’s death is ongoing. They have asked anyone with relevant information to come forward to assist in solving the case. Police have not provided additional details on the potential motive for the murder, but the involvement of a mental health evaluation for the arrested individual has raised questions regarding the circumstances surrounding the incident.
The Key family has requested privacy as they navigate the devastating loss of both Nigel and his wife in such a short span of time. The local community remains deeply affected by the tragedy, and neighbors continue to express their condolences and support for the grieving family.
What Happens Next?
As the investigation unfolds, the community continues to remember Nigel Key for his kindness, generosity, and unwavering dedication to his family. Plans for his memorial and funeral service have not yet been announced.
This story may be updated with more information as it becomes available.
